This IS the million dollar online dating question, isn't it?
So many of you have shared your questions with us about when to take down your dating profile that its clear that this issue creates anxiety for many online daters.
And, you’re busy with work and other commitments, so you rationalize you don’t have time to keep playing the field. The social, fun loving guy seems to drink just a little bit too much. Even if he asks you to be exclusive right away or says he isn’t dating others, continue to keep your options open.
or even for those that have been engaged for some time, but without committing to a date, you need to do something about it.
You can’t sit back, and use different phrases like, “time will tell,” or “in time it will happen,” or “have patience,” and don’t you just love this one, “if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen.” There gets to be a point for couples when enough is enough, and you need to figure out what you want to do, either be with a person and commit to them, or move on.
Those are the big three in terms of “don’t.” Now that we’ve gotten that unpleasantness out of the way, it’s time to talk in more positive terms.
You Want to Be Exclusive It sounds obvious, but if it were, we wouldn’t have to say it: Do you want to be exclusive?
Worried he’ll be turned off that you want to take things slow? I’ve helped thousands of women get the relationship they want.
I promise you that the right guy will stay the course.You are more able to spot red flags when you take your time getting to know someone.And, this slower process enables you to break patterns of attracting commitmentphobes who come on strong then bolt.You can only postpone moving forward in life and in relationships for certain amount of time, and have it still be considered normal..But unfortunately these days many times people bring old hang ups, insecurities, and issues from previous situations where they felt hurt in different ways , and they tend to be a bit cautious of becoming exclusive too quickly.When you transition from “just seeing each other” to being “in a relationship” is a conundrum that has puzzled man since we first came down from the trees.