For all the moralising in the media about infidelity when stories such as Gayet-gate emerge, the truth is that adultery is often in tune with the "hook up" culture to which modern women are accustomed.Our manufactured outrage and new-found moralism obscures the fact that to a lot of women, an affair seems like quite a sensible proposition.She still enjoys kissing and receiving massages from me but that's as far as it goes.
I am still very much physically attracted to my wife and I tell her that I think she's beautiful and sexy quite frequently.
But in spite of all these efforts, when I try to initiate sex, my wife participates through the foreplay and then tells me that she just doesn't feel like having sex or is too tired.
So why did she waste precious time with Adam, a married father of two who never had any real intention of leaving his wife?
And when they first met, was she really scanning the room for tall, dark, and handsome, or was she actually looking for married with romance sans responsibility?
But what a lot of people don't ask is why on earth a woman would want to knowingly get herself involved up with a coupled-up man.
Take the intelligent, sexy, independently successful Julia Gayet.When single women see a moderately attractive male, they are more interested in him if they believe he is already in a relationship!In fact, one sizable study found 90 percent of single women were interested in a man who they believed was taken, while a mere 59 percent wanted him when told he was single.Here’s 21 reasons you should never have an affair with a married man. You’ll look permanently tired through sleepless nights thinking of him with his wife. Even though he’s told you they don’t have sex any more. Having to listen to that old chestnut – his wife doesn’t understand him. If someone else wants him, he must be worth wanting. Remember, too, that some traditional types may want happily-ever-afters of emotional availability and financial security, while others may be after less than the full enchilada of marriage and children.