Dating scams are getting more and more sophisticated.No longer are fake profiles sparse on details and lacking in the supporting information, friends, or activity that makes them easy to spot. When Phoebe was approached by a soldier based in Afghanistan, she had no idea that she was about to fall victim to one of the most common - and underhanded - dating scams around.Fortunately the vast majority of our members never encounter a situation where their safety is under threat. Just like crossing the road or meeting new people in any environment, including a Church or in the course of a job, it is usually very safe but it is necessary to take care and some precautions.
For a start, all of his friends weren’t what you’d expect - not many soldiers and not much in the way of family”.
Despite the profile having recent activity, posts from what appeared to be a continuous deployment, and even comments and praise from friends, there were plenty of signs that Peter’s identity had been faked.“You’d at least expect to see plenty of activity from loved ones, as well as posts about important life events like the birth of a niece or nephew, or the birthday of a sibling or parent.” Additionally, the man was claiming to be in his 50s, an appropriate dating age bracket for Phoebe, the client.
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People need to know that unscrupulous individuals are stealing the good name of soldiers to manipulate people and take their money.
They’ll pan for gold among tens of thousands to find a few pieces of gold. If they’re a different person than on their profile photo, bail! If the person has a Facebook profile with 10 friends, well that’s a dead giveaway as well. For example, we know people don’t use the word ‘wire’ in regular dating communications. Report to the local police and ask to be referred to their cyber crimes unit. The problem is, most of these scams are cross-border and it becomes tough to coordinate jurisdiction.
It used to be easy to just Google phrases – criminals often reused them – but now it is less so. Q: What should I do if I suspect someone IS a scammer? That’s a red flag and is usually picked up by dating sites auto-detection systems. But the scammers know better to use that word on dating sites now. Its exhausting, and most victims just want to put the entire event behind them.We also have a large team of experts dedicated to the removal and closure of fake scammer banks and sites.Even if you are a newcomer, much fun can be had and at the same time you will be doing a public service.Well, we're not going to tell you the exact details because we don’t want the scammers to know!But here's an insight: dating sites try to get rid of scammers: some don't have the facilities to detect and remove them; free sites don't necessarily have the resources; and some sites even like scammers because they are active on the site and therefore are good for business!Even if they’ve been taken for tens of thousands of dollars.