In fact, even discussing it in any positive or neutral manner would very likely be received by finnish women as blatant racism or worse, apology of blatant racism. So feel free to talk in general manner, lines are crossed when discussion veers towards personal inclinations.Your cultural background means exactly shit to most of us.
After all, there are a lot of frozen lakes in winter in Finland.
If you are a bit unstable on your feet, he will surely help you learn to skate better, which can be romantic as you will hold onto him for dear life making your way on the ice. This in turn means that they love running into icy lakes in winter after having had a sauna. And here’s the catch: they are often naked when they do it.
And girls talk, so you'd be hard pressed to get another date from that clique of friends. We either date or not, and you're not supposed to look for other options. Don't go praising the virtues of stay at home-motherhood. Do not, for the love of all things holy, discuss about religion here. That's about the worst faux pas you can pull of.
There's no caste system, so you need to forget that ever existed. You do that and get caught, it's cheating and that's it. Sure, we're interested in other religions but that's out of exoticity and curiosity.
So in conclusion, dating in Finland seems to be hellish to say the least, atleast if you by any chance happen to be a 30 something woman, with some self-respect and children.
Oh yeah and if you aren’t a woman, I’m single if I didn’t mention it already and can be asked out :p Edit I am very flattered by the attention this post has given me.
As I come from Sweden I have met a Finnish man or two in my life and my dad’s girlfriend of over ten years is Finnish, so I have some knowledge about the Finns.
If you re curious, read on…Right, this is obvious, I’m sure.
You might get pity sex that way but that's it.
Family is not nearly as big thing here as it is pretty much everywhere else.
I’ve been single for 10 years now, I tried tinder, which in my opinion is basically for one night stands.