And until you see the truth for yourself, no one else can help you realize it. It’s been said that if you drop a frog in boiling water, it would jump out immediately.
The pilgrims had come to touch the globe in Her hand, a gesture reputed to confer fertility but when I pressed my trembling fingertips to the orb I could only think of how I had been summoned half-way around the world in a few swift days to complete a pilgrimage I never knew I had embarked on.I had come without knowing it into the domain of the Black Mother and as one journey ended so a newer and stranger one began.Now this may be a metaphor to prove a cautionary tale about change and our inability to see the signs.But this story plays a big part in understanding your own relationship.And sometimes the abuse has gone on so long you no longer recognize it as abuse.
This quiz will help you gain a clearer picture of the problem in your relationship.Answer the questions in this will sincerely apologize as quickly as possible after it’s come to his or her attention that they hurt you.An abuser will apologize only if doing so will serve a selfish purpose.[Read: 16 abusive relationship signs and traits of a devious lover] Emotional abuse is easy to overlook Reality and our interpretation of reality are completely different and subjective.You would believe you’re being emotionally abused only if you convince yourself of that truth.If you are touched in a personal way that feels uncomfortable with you, then it’s abuse.